Monogram 101

Monograms are kind of our thing—and we’re here to help you get yours just right.

Whether you’re customizing a gift, treating yourself, or ordering something special for someone else, understanding how monograms work makes the process feel easy, fun, and totally personal. Here’s a breakdown of the different monogram styles and where they shine best:


Female Monogram

For individual women, the most traditional format is a three-letter monogram with the last name initial in the center, slightly larger than the other two.

Order: First Name – Last Name – Middle Name
Example: Mary Jane Smith becomes m S j

Best For:
– Tote bags and purses
– Cosmetic and travel pouches
– Robes or pajamas
– Jewelry cases
– Baby gifts (from mom or grandma)
– Everyday items like notepad holders or lunch totes

This style is elegant and timeless—perfect for celebrating yourself or someone you love with a personal touch that feels extra special.


Male Monogram

For men, the classic choice is a block-style, straight-line monogram with first-middle-last initials all the same size.

Order: First Name – Middle Name – Last Name
Example: James Andrew Lee becomes JAL

Best For:
– Golf towels or gym bags
– Dress shirts or outerwear
– Toiletry kits or travel gear
– Personalized handkerchiefs
– Work totes or portfolios
– Groomsmen gifts

It’s simple, strong, and practical—a clean monogram style that works well for both personal use and professional settings.


Married Couple Monogram

For couples, the traditional format places the wife’s first initial on the left, the shared last name in the center (larger), and the husband’s first initial on the right.

Order: Wife’s First – Shared Last – Husband’s First
Example: Emily and Brian Thompson becomes e T b

Best For:
– Towels or bedding
– Home décor like pillows or napkins
– Wedding or engagement gifts
– Kitchen linens or cutting boards
– Luggage sets
– Holiday stockings

It’s a thoughtful and classic way to celebrate a shared life—ideal for newlyweds or couples who just love a little something personalized.


Style It Your Way

While these are the go-to formats, there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to something as personal as a monogram. We offer a variety of fonts, thread colors, and placement options so you can create something that matches your exact style.

Have questions? Not sure which format fits best? We’re always happy to help! Just reach out and we’ll walk you through it.

Let’s make your monogram one to remember—because it’s more than just initials, it’s you in every stitch.